shit that hurts

When asking a person what’s wrong and they respond with 1.) “you wouldn’t understand”. 2.) “you won’t understand”. 3.) “you don’t understand”… either way it’s said, it hurts when that person doesn’t even at least try to explain and then jumps to one of those phrases or something close to those 3. I know you’re the one whose probably hurting more, but don’t say something like that because you didn’t even give me a chance to listen.